Tuesday, January 10, 2012

Its All About Your Heart: Celebrating my 14th Wedding Anniversary

Today marks my 14th wedding anniversary.  Somehow 14 sounds so much more than 13!


Recently I was at a friend's birthday luncheon, mostly amongst ladies I was meeting for the first time.  The entire group began remarking and joking about how getting their husbands to write them a love letter would basically be akin to them consenting for a root canal without anesthesia.  How their men would never take the initiative to write one.  I, not wanting to be a human dart board or come across as that 'rub it in your face' girl, kept quiet.
Well, bring on the darts and the envy...

My husband writes encouraging, inspiring, and romantic handwritten love notes, emails, and texts to me all the time, without being prompted.  He has since we began dating...which definitely lent itself favorably to wooing me.
Often they come when I most need them and out of the blue...
when i've started in on a new goal
when i'm frustrated, inadequate, or overwhelmed
when i'm feeling frumpy and unattractive
when he knows I've had it up to here with the whining and fighting from the kids
mostly to tell me how wonderful he thinks i am and what a great job i am doing as a wife and mother.

We as mothers, wives, well women in general, are quite aware on our own of all the millions of weaknesses we possess and exhibit on a daily basis...over and over.  Heavenly Father knew that I needed a man that would never point them out to me, someone who would only build me up.
That is what I have in Mike.
I am eternally grateful for his optimism, his humor, his compassion, his tenderness, his work ethic, his righteousness, and especially
HIS LOVE.

Thank you Michael for loving me the mostest.

I am grateful for the covenants we have made to each other and to God, that will enable us to be husband and wife throughout eternity.  Imagine how many notes I will have gotten by then:)

I have had so much fun sifting through our photos from our life together.  It was difficult to narrow my favorites down, so here is just a sampling of Mr. and Mrs. Johnson, 14...going on 15.

















Just this past week Mike introduced me to a new music artist Mindy Gledhill and I immediately loved  one of her songs, "All About Your Heart".  As I heard the words of the chorus I began to cry:

Oh, I’ve loved you from the start
In every single way
And more each passing day
You are brighter than the stars
Believe me when I say
It’s not about your scars
It’s all about your heart


As I have battled with the adjustment of Multiple Sclerosis also being apart of our marriage and the toll that it has taken upon my soul companion, I am grateful that my love for him has surpassed the impact of those 'innumerable' scars and is all about his heart, the unconditional outpouring of love that he gives me each and every day.


Oh, I've loved you from the start
In every single way
And more each passing day
It's not about your scars
It's all about your heart
I LOVE YOU MICHAEL!!!!!

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Jordan Ferguson · 690 weeks ago

This was the sweetest post ever! Happy Anniversary! :)
1 reply · active 690 weeks ago
thank you Jordan:) wishing you a love note writing hubby! maybe you'll find him in Nevada. hope things are going well for you!
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Happy Anniversary!!! Cute post and pictures!
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thanks Kristina:) glad you enjoyed seeing us 'grow up'.
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Happy Anniversary! I am so glad you have found true happiness in life and in your husband and family. I think the two of you win the award for most photogenic couple ever!!
1 reply · active 690 weeks ago
Thank you Kylie! I truly have:) well thank you for the bestowal of the award, but trust me there were some definite doozies that did NOT make the cut. in fact Mike and I have a few that we discussed burning:)
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Oh friend, love you. And happy you said yes day... :) Its an honor to be married to good men, and we get to blossom because they love us well! Its awesome. Enjoy 14, every second of it. Loved seeing you two throughout the years..... celebrate today.
1 reply · active 690 weeks ago
Love you too Leslie:) Well put, we definitely are blessed with awesome men. Glad you got a little glimpse into our past life. Pretty funny huh? We were such kids, I love it!
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It seems like just yesterday! Where did the time go? SO happy for you and Mike. You both got very lucky. Much love to you and your family! ~Des
1 reply · active 690 weeks ago
Oh Des how I miss you!! I found so many photos of you while I was searching for these. I am so grateful for your friendship and for the love you have always given me and my family!! Time truly has flown, sometimes I don't believe its possible that I could have a 9 year old:) Love you dear friend!
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I love you guys!! LOVE LOVE this post! I am so thankful that my sister has a husband who loves her the way she should be! So happy to know that you guys still love each other after all this time! And I agree with Kylie you guys are very photogenic!!
I absolutely love Mindy Gledhill, my favorite song is Anchor! I also love Hourglass it reminds me of Jack.
Happy Anniversary!!
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Thanks Nes. Love you too!! I love that we live so close and can go do things together like getting our trash kicked to the curb trying to get in shape. As far as photogenic, let me just say that I am grateful for the invention of the digital camera that allows multiple shots and previews in order to avoid my inevitable blinking or rolled back eyes of the film era. So fun that you love Mindy Gledhill. I will have to check out those other songs. Love you and so grateful for the way Josh treats you like a queen too....and calls you 'babe':)
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You think his love notes to you are good, you should read the doozies he would leave on my pillow in FanLing!

Phew, now I'm all flushed. :-)

Happy Anniversary to you and my very most favorite comp.
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3 replies · active 690 weeks ago
Eric, I thought we swore never to reveal those secrets...you'll always be my FanLing Fling. Hey, wanna ride bikes like Ponch and John from CHiPs?
I've recently read one he wrote to Sister Alex Wong, so sorry to break it to you, but you had some competition:)

thanks Eric. Mike was so happy to get back in touch with you!!
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jasmine wilmany · 690 weeks ago

Loved looking at your photos... You're amazing. :)
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1 reply · active 690 weeks ago
Glad you enjoyed seeing our photos:) I was a wee lassie when we got married. I think you're pretty amazing too! Hope we can get together soon! Dinner and a movie sounds great!
I love all the pics! I sat at my computer and cried because I miss my brother! And his a-may-zing wife and darling kids! You write such touching words Briana.. I am so happy that you guys have each other-you're perfect for each other. Happy Anniversary!! Love you guys!
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So glad that you enjoyed seeing them! I sat at my computer and cried too looking at the photos and listening to Mindy Gledhill's song "All About Your Heart", so we're quite the pair:) I am sad that you miss him. It has been a long time and I don't know when we will be able to come up. We were hoping this past fall, so maybe this coming fall!! Thank you for your sweet compliments. I'm glad Mike and I have each other too - perfect because we compliment each other, as we are opposites in many things:) Love you too Karen!
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Manju Naveen · 581 weeks ago

Dear Briana,
you guys are such a beautiful couple and perfect for each other, just loved seeing the pics. I don't knw you personally but was just browsing through the net on anniversary wishes when I came across your blog. God bless, pray both of you are blessed and remain happy as always. May you celebrate your togetherness and love for many more years to come.
warm regards and love
Manju ( from India)

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